Category: Life and Times


  • We Are Already Looking at It

    Efficiency has become my number one priority in life. With each passing year, my strictness for efficiency grows. In another article, I plan to explain more in depth my thought process for being more efficient; but here, I want to talk about how I got to this point. Perhaps, my obsession with efficiency is due…

  • As the Hours Pass into Darkness

    As the hours pass into darkness, I find myself obscured by the dark shadows of my clouded past. Certainly, there were silver linings to be enjoyed, but for all the rain that pours down upon me, often I find myself still wanting for a cool refreshing rain. Instead, the raindrops felt like little pins and…

  • Why Your Personal Traits Matter More Than You Think

    I was taught at many points in my childhood that character determines your fate. The common consensus is that nothing can be truer when it comes to your personal success and happiness. Ultimately, it’s not what you know or even how hard you work that determines your success – it’s who you are. If you…

  • Only You Can Change the Truth of Your Own Reality

    For years, I wore my heart on my sleeve. It was obvious when I’d have a bad day. It didn’t seem to be worth the energy to even bother to hide how I really felt. But, it made people become quite leery of me. I was a ticking time bomb about to explode. Still, I tried…

  • Still Unwritten

    Still Unwritten

    “The rest is still unwritten…” – Natasha Bedingfield I can hear the chuckles right now for referencing a Natasha Bedingfield song, perhaps easily her most famous, “Unwritten.” Lest we forget, though, that the future is still, in fact, unwritten. People may believe in Fate or Destiny, but trying to understand the threads that may well…

  • Meditations on the Writing of Lyrics, Poetry, and Whatnot

    I feel that there is a certain material grossness to the words that I have written in all times before now. I have never quite comprehended the source of my poetic and lyrical inspirations, and I can’t say that I quite do now, except to say that I seem to be a veritable well of…

  • My Choice to Publish a Book Without an Agent

    Literary agents play an essential role in the world of publishing, providing a bridge between authors and publishing houses. I have all the respect in the world for the talented literary agents who turn writers’ dreams into tangible realities. But, while they have proven to be indispensable for many, some authors choose to forgo an…

  • Where Am I Going With This?

    My mind tends to wander more than most. At least, that’s why I’ve been told. Sometimes, this is a good thing, as I then discover trains of thought that haven’t left the station yet. Other times, I just derail. Also, what’s up with all these train metaphors? Anyway, where am I going with this? It’s…

  • The Renaissance of Antiheroes

    In our culture, we now value anti-heroes more than super-heroes. Honestly, I think perhaps that our culture might be correct in idolizing imperfect people who perform heroic acts for less than heroic reasons, much like real life. Every time I have sat down to write a story about heroes, it never comes out well. On…

  • Do You Want to Be a Thought Leader?

    When I first became serious about writing online, both in personal blogging and in freelance web writing, I read a lot about thought leadership. But, what baffled me was, despite everyone talking about becoming a thought leader, no one really talked about how one actually becomes a thought leader in your certain area of expertise.…